We are where we are today based on the choices we made yesterday – the choices we make today determines where we will be tomorrow. My good friend Jack Canfield teaches a formula E+R=O. E are the Events that happen to us in Life – we can not change them. R is the Response or Reaction we give to those events. O is the Outcome. Just like 2+2=4, if we want a different Outcome we must change one of the 2′s. We don’t have control over the Events, but we can change our Reaction to those events. So we must take the responsiblity for our how our lives are. Our R’s have determined where we are. The new R’s will determine where we go. If we don’t like the 5 people we hang around or the Reactions to those events – we must change them.